Reasons Why You Must Forgive

  







Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, et go of negative emotions such as vengefulness, with an increased ability to which the offender well.  Forgiveness is different from abandoning (failing to see the action as wrong and in need of forgiveness), excusing (not holding the offender as responsible for the action) forgetting (removing awareness of the offense from consciousness), pardoning and reconciliation (restoration of friendship).

Truth be said, we are hard wired humanly to retaliate when we are offended. There is this adrenaline rush that makes us feel the deer need to retaliate in order for people to get compensated for the wrong they’ve done to us. Experience as shown that retaliation isn’t the best way of getting revenge as it may sometimes end up exaggerating the problem.

Forgiveness is not an easy action as it is often portrayed especially those who are hypocritical preach about forgiveness. Most people say “i forgive you” without taking it to the heart. For forgiveness to occur, the “forgive” must do this with his/her heart. Forgiveness cannot just be done carnally, hence not effective when it is done by just saying of words.

 

The answer to the question why forgiveness is hard is because the human consciousness has hard time living in the present moment. Forgiveness is giving up all hope of a better past. Even though forgiveness is a hard task, we still must try our possible best to forgive even though it may take a while. Forgiveness can be a process that needs time for its completion.

The concept “forgive and forget” is literally mean you should forgive those who wrong you, and you not using their previous actions against them. For every blossom relationship, there must be constant act of forgiveness.

  

WHY MUST I FORGIVE?

   1. JESUS FORGAVE OUR SINS: 

  

    The holy Bible tells us of how God sent his only begotten son to die for our sins. Prior to te arrival of Jesus on earth, man was under bondage, but Jesus decided to pay the sacrifice of cleansing us from our sins in order for man to be mediated back to its creator called God.

 

   2. IT IS A BURDEN NOT TO FORGIVE: 

    Often times when we get disappointed by one  actions or the other, we get burned as this makes us to be full of range and anger. We are unable to do anything psychologically right at this period of time. Have a clear mind is the key to productivity. 

   3 FREEDOM IS FORGIVENESS:

  

   The most important reason for forgiveness is because it leads us to be close to God. If you cannot forgive, then you’re not free with the redemption. Forgiveness doesn’t need to be instantaneous, but with the help of God, everything will get much better and pretty fast. 
 

Remember forgiveness begins with you

Have you’ve forgiven who?